(A work in progress! Ask questions in the comments)

Mastobate.social is an affinity group with a specific focus: MALE MASTURBATION, including solo, partner and group sex, excluding penetration. Content restrictions mirror the behavior restrictions found in any genuine, traditional jack-off club: No lips below the hips and nothing goes inside anybody’s anything.

Our philosophy is that sex is important, natural, healthy and fundamentally good. We also recognize that while a broad array of sexual activities may be considered by some to be “as good” as or “better” than non-penetrative sex, much may not be posted on this server. Think of it as you would a strict, specialized diet environment, like a kosher kitchen. There are completely delicious foods you might love outside of a kosher kitchen, but you can never eat a pork chop in one.

The masturbation-only community is like a kosher kitchen. Oral and anal sex are like pork chops there. Those pork chops you may crave and enjoy somewhere else may never enter this place. Permitted content is what defines this specific culture and if you like it, are drawn to it, find excitement, satisfaction and a sense of belonging in it, you understand that these boundaries are what make it possible.

Also, Mastobate is Federated! We exist in a way that allows each of us to explore and enjoy a vast Fediverse of burgeoning content outside our own server. Users can follow and enjoy all kinds of people outside of Mastobate anytime they like.

But there is content you may post and content you may not post. If you have a primary need for content that is not permitted on Mastobate, consider moving your account to a different server. You can actually do that and continue to follow users here.

“Post” includes anything you publish from your Mastobate user account, including boosts!

WHAT’S OKAY TO POST ON MASTOBATE?

IMAGES:

• Male
• Adult
• Full/partial nudity, including explicitly sexual
• Toys (yes, dildos and butt plugs are acceptable)
• Fetish

WORDS:

• Your own ideas!
• Explicitly sexual stuff
• Random thoughts
• Opinions & commentary
• Narratives (share your stories)
• Conversation (respond to what others post)
• Honesty
• Respect: mutual and self
• Kindness, compassion
• Encouragement

WHAT’S *NOT* OKAY?

IMAGES:

• Female (no female-presenting bodies)
• Underage (if they look young, you need to present verifiable documentation of legal age and that’s on you to obtain)
• Anal (no fucking, no fisting, no rimming)
• Oral (no blow jobs—self-suck is okay!)
• Depictions of cruelty
• Non-consensual acts

IDEAS:

• Hate/bigotry/classism
• Confrontation and provocation
• Misinformation
• Unkindness, disrespect (don’t be a dick)
• Politics (does not belong here)

BUT WHAT ABOUT… ?

There are some gray areas for sure. Is using a dildo penetration? Is deep kissing “putting something in somebody’s anything?” Is fetishizing women’s underwear still “male?” Can a trans-masculine guy show his pussy?

Answers to these:

• Dildos are acceptable
• Deep kissing is acceptable
• Lingerie is acceptable
• Trans-masculine bodies are acceptable

Add your comments and questions and help continue this conversation. Thank you for being part of Mastobate!

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